I plan to...

I talk to people daily who say, "I plan to...." I now reply, "Really? Let's see it." They normally respond with some variation of, "Huh?"


The oft quoted rule of law states, "If it is not in writing, it never happened." Consider this: "If it isn't written down, it won't happen."


It is amazing how we (yes, me included) approach lifetime goals and make important decisions without a plan that's specific enough to get us anywhere near our desired destination. We plan to... but we don't really have a plan.


Related to their finances people often say, "We try to save money, but we never seem to get anywhere." Again, I ask, "Let's see your plan." And get the normal reply. Financial expert Dave Ramsey often says, "Normal is broke. Be weird!"


If you plan to go on vacation next summer, what is your plan to pay for it? You need to have a plan. If you plan to buy your kids Christmas gifts, what are you saving toward that each month? You need to have a plan. If you plan to ever re-pace your work schedule (sometimes called retirement), how much do you need to save to draw from during those years? You need to have a plan. Few people like the word, budget but practically, it just means, money plan.


A monthly family budget needs to include all the things we plan to do. We plan to pay our rent or mortgage payment, utilities, groceries, etc. But what about the other planned spending (e.g., gifts, vacation, insurance, taxes, etc.)? Writing all of this down on paper before the month begins is a vital component to your financial success. Each month should begin with this plan in place.

• Write it down

Spend every dollar you are going to receive - on paper, on purpose. Spend each paycheck in order of importance and due date until you have used the entire check on the page. Your most important plans should take priority. If you are struggling, start with food, shelter, utilities, transportation, and clothing. These are the basic necessities of life. Take care of them before anything else (and even if someone else doesn't get paid this month).

• Agree on it with your spouse or accountability partner

Those of us who are married MUST work together if the money is going to work. Some need accountability so as to not make impulse buys. Others need the input from their spouse so the family actually has a life (I tend to squeeze the budget so tight there is no money for fun)! Both spouses have a voice in the process. Singles need the accountability of a trusted friend who is willing to ask tough questions. They don't have a say in the final decision, but wise advice should always be regarded.

• Review it weekly for changes and to stay on target.

Remember, you have spent every dollar you are going to receive, so if there is a change - either an expense that was greater than planned or something unplanned, you will have to find the money somewhere else. But you are making the decision on purpose. You are making decisions based on true priorities - what is most important. These offsetting adjustments force you to stay within your total budget.

As is often the case with topics related to money, planning affects many other areas of life. If you plan to improve your marriage or other relationship, you need to have a plan. What are the steps you are going to take today...tomorrow...next week.... If you plan to get married, you need to have a plan. What characteristics are non-negotiable? If you plan to move ahead in your career or get a better job, what are you doing to move that direction? Is there a class you need to take or training you need to go through?

In our pursuit to be more like God, we have to ask the question, "What is God like?" I know one thing - God has a plan - and He wrote it down.

In the Bible Jeremiah the prophet wrote to the people of Israel who were exiled in Babylon, "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans for wholeness and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope." (Jer. 29:11) I believe these words hold true for the people of God everywhere.

On the other hand, 1 Peter 5:8b says, "Your adversary, the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour." It is important that we realize that if we don't have a plan, someone has one for us!

We all need to have a plan for our life and our money - written down - and it needs to be God's plan. The alternative it not pretty. I have seen estates, budgets, families, and individuals "devoured" by nothing more than lack of planning.

Take the time. Develop your plan. Write it down. If I can help in any way, please contact me.